Just about every sexist cliché will tell you that women are hard to please, both in and out of the bedroom. That isn't exactly true; it’s just that wo
Just about every sexist cliché will tell you that women are hard to please, both in and out of the bedroom. That isn’t exactly true; it’s just that women know what they want. Unfortunately, not every woman feels entirely comfortable expressing her sexual desires. Some women fear judgment, others are more guarded, and still others are asking in less obvious ways that often go unnoticed. The good thing is that they are hardly asking for the impossible.
So here are a few things women actually want in bed. Know them and make pleasing her easy
Be passionate
Sure, there’s a time and a place for romance and gentle lovemaking, but what your woman really craves is raw passion. Want her. Take her. Kiss her hard. Make no apologies for how desperate you need all of her.
She wants to be heard
Be the kind of sexual partner who will eagerly respond to her guidance on how best to please her. Just know that your efforts will be rewarded.
Show your pleasure
Allow your facial expressions, body language, and verbal cues to give her insight into what gets you hot. Remember, turning you on is a major turn-on for her.
Sexual intimacy
She wants to tell you her deepest, darkest naughty desires so the more open you are about your bedroom fantasies, the more open she’ll be with hers.
Verbal affirmation
Research says that 44 per cent of women are turned on by a simple, ‘ I love you’ while ‘You’re so hot’ does it for 26 percent of the ladies.
Dirty talk
Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. Engage her naughty side and tell her exactly what you’re thinking. Tell her what you want to do and then do it!
Turn on the romance
The whole petals on the bed and candles all around thing is so romantic, and romance is the ultimate turn-on.
Be confident
The truth about what women want in bed lies less in technique and more in attitude. She craves your confidence. She wants a take-charge kind of guy who’s neither shy nor timid about his need to completely ravage every bit of her. There are more than a few places on a woman’s body that can bring her pleasure. While the old stand-bys are tried and true, try focusing on the whole of her body rather than some of its parts.
Don’t rush things, enjoy the ride
In reality, many men are often focused on the end goal, orgasm, rushing to get to the climax like they’re in a race. Most women will grow bored of this. It isn’t like women don’t like a quickie every now and then, but this approach will eventually kill the enjoyment of sex.
Make some noise
During sex, if she’s crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can’t even manage a grunt, she’s going to feel like an idiot. You don’t have to make the sounds she is making, but do something. Whisper her name gruffly, groan against her neck when you’re in missionary position, not like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she’s going to get worried.
PS: Watch out for the next article on things men want in bed
