Popular Nigerian instagram celebrity and self acclaimed relationship expert, Joro Olumofin talks sex as he advised that men, Nigerian men specifically
Popular Nigerian instagram celebrity and self acclaimed relationship expert, Joro Olumofin talks sex as he advised that men, Nigerian men specifically, should have sex with their wives, 16 times a week and enjoy oral sex with their wives, five times a week.
Joro Olumofin who said that it is one of the keys to avoid cheating on one’s spouse, wrote this in an open letter he addressed to husbands titled, ‘Letter to Husbands’. According to him, society puts so much pressure on women these days on ways to keep their home and prevent their men from cheating on them.
“If a man cheats, it’s his wife’s fault for not keeping him or satisfying him, this notion is absolutely wrong. There are a million things a woman is asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man is asked to do to keep his woman.
“We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and we’re doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship. Most Men act like they are the only ones who are granted free pass to cheat or it is their right to cheat. Women can cheat as well but they choose to be loyal in relationships for love, peace sake and to keep their homes.”
Instagram celebrity, Joro Olumofin has therefore listed a number of things that husbands should do to make their relationship work just as women do as well.
1. Sex: You should have sex with your wife at least 16 times a week and oral sex at least 5 times a week. This is your duty as man. It is your responsibility. No excuses.
2. You must not have passwords on your phone or any device. If passwords are necessary, your wife should have them all.
3. You must not let her food waste. A happy married man shouldn’t be seen eating outside only lunch at work is allowed.
4. Bring your wife breakfast in bed and bring back a gift from work every day. Every single day. Even if it is fruits, a wig, a painting or flowers.
5. Schedule prayer and fasting times. Have a routine, say once a month with your wife to tackle personal issues.
6. Even if she has a job, she deserves a weekly or monthly allowance of at least N100,000.
7. Men complain that their wives don’t look the same as when they first met. A lot of men have pot bellies too. So work on your physical appearance.
8. Listen to her. No matter how tired or busy you are. Listen to her and gossip with her.
If you don’t appreciate your wife, she may seek appreciation elsewhere. It’s a full time job to be a good wife. Make it a full time job to be a good husband as well.
